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No one wants to talk about planning for long-term care, but the simple fact is, the more you have in place ahead of time, the easier it will be if the need to make those decisions arises. You want your family involved, of course, and as families gather for the holidays, now is a great time to bring up the topic.
But having this discussion isn’t easy. The Mayo Foundation offers these tips for talking about long-term care with your parents or loved ones:
• Ask pointed questions. Ask if your loved one is having any problems around the house that you can relate to his or her need for long term care. For example, if your father says he has trouble turning on the faucet, you could ask whether he needs help with managing bathing and other personal care.
• Listen to your loved one's or parent's concerns. Let them know you understand. Remind your parent or loved one that their safety is your main concern.
• Acknowledge your loved one's or parent's wishes. Find out what kind of facility they would prefer. If you encounter resistance, stay positive. Remember, as long as they are mentally competent, it’s their decision to make.
• Ask others to help. If your parent or loved one doesn't respond well, ask a doctor, attorney, clergy or someone else they trust to get involved in the discussion.
SOURCE: Mayo Foundation 47408
11/08
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