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When you address an elderly friend or relative suffering from Alzheimer’s as “dear” or “sweetie,” you might think you're conveying warmth and caring. But according to a study presented at the 2008 Alzheimer's Association International Conference on Alzheimer's Disease, in Chicago, you may actually be doing just the opposite.
In fact, it may be one of the worst ways to communicate with an older person. “It's giving messages to older adults that they're incompetent,” says researcher Kristine Williams, R.N., Ph.D., associate professor at the University of Kansas School of Nursing. It could trigger “a negative downward spiral for older persons, who react with decreased self-esteem, depression, withdrawal and the assumption of dependent behaviors.”
The study was based on videotapes made in a nursing home of residents and staff. The tapes revealed that patients, especially those with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia, were more aggressive and less receptive to care when addressed with terms of endearment. “The main task for a person with Alzheimer's is to maintain a sense of self or personhood,” says Dr. Williams. “If you know you're losing your cognitive abilities and trying to maintain your personhood, and someone talks to you like a baby, it's upsetting to you.”
Food for thought the next time you interact with your elderly parents or other aging relatives.
Source: University of Kansas Medical Center
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